BARBARA WAH

Barbara J. Wah, 81, passed away peacefully on December 31, 2025, at Geisinger Wyoming Valley Medical Center.

Born on September 2, 1944, in Newark, New Jersey, Barbara was the daughter of the late Robert and Alice (Lutz) Oelke. Throughout her life, Barbara found joy in simple pleasures. She enjoyed playing bingo, solving crossword puzzles, and had a fondness for the color red. She liked being outdoors and spending time appreciating nature.

Barbara was well known for her sharp wit and sarcasm, always ready to crack a good joke. She embraced her role as the funny, “crazy” relative in the family, bringing laughter and lighthearted moments to those around her. Her sense of humor was a defining part of who she was and will be fondly remembered by all who knew her.

Above all, Barbara was a devoted mother. She lovingly raised and cared for her daughter, Eileen, encouraging her interests by enrolling her in arts and dance lessons. Her love for family was at the center of her life and remained her greatest pride.

Though she was not known for her cooking skills, Barbara was famous among family for one special dish—a delicious pepper steak that became a cherished favorite.

Barbara is survived by her daughter, Eileen Havard of Nescopeck; her siblings, Arnold Oelke, Linda Dybo, and Cheryl Barney; two grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren, all of whom she loved dearly.

In addition to her parents, Barbara was preceded in death by her siblings, Dolores Burns, Alice Lozar, Robert Oelke Jr., and Corlene Nilon.

Funeral service will be conducted on Friday, February 6, 2026 at 11:30 am in Maple Hill Cemetery Chapel, 68 E. St Marys Rd. Hanover Township with interment following.  

Arrangements under the direction of the Desiderio-Lehman Funeral and Cremation, Mountain Top.

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